Brotha Man talking mad ish, but hold up, Gym shoe!!
He may have some major points. Check it out:
A GOOD MAN
You say you want a Good Man and when it comes to finding one, you won't.
Because when it comes to really wanting one, simply put, ladies, you don't.
You say you want a Good Man, one that will always give you hugs.
But every time I turn around, you're always chasing after thugs.
You say you want a Good Man. Well, I'm here to tell you that's not true.
Because the last one that came your way, wasn't tall enough for you.
You say you want a Good Man because you're tired of trifling mess.
However, you rolled your eyes at the last one, because you didn't like the way he dressed. You say you want a Good Man, one that will have you for his wife.
Yet, every time you come across one, you say he's just too nice.
You say you want a Good Man and I'm not saying you should make him beg.
But a brother should at least know your first and last name before you open up your legs.
See if you try that with a Good Man, in you he won't be pleased.
For he realizes, just like he could have, other brothers have had you with ease.
Now in order to get a Good Man, you need to listen; see, it's in your favor.
Starting with the fact that no Good Man wants a woman who curses like a sailor.
And in your quest to find a Good Man, listen as if it's Law.
You'll never find a good man, if you always label him as a dog.
See a Good Man wants a woman that expects to receive his best.
But you will never ever find one, if you keep settling for less.
Now if you've found a man you think might be right for you.
You'll know he's not a Good man, if he won't go to church with you.
For in the life of a Good Man, you're not first, but don't take it hard.
See you're standing right there next to him, but you're second after God.
So if you still would like a Good Man, one that will make you a real good husband.
There's only one thing left for you to do…..and that's simply become a Good Woman.
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I’m feeling this, don't get me wrong. But, ya knows I have to dissect each and every one as it relates to me, 'cause that's just me. Ok, so if you know me then you know the thug requirement is a part of me, right? Shall we call it "urban," people? :-) Word!! It is just that I gotta feel like he can take care of me and have my back. Like, he will open up a can of whup tail on somebody if they call me anything other than my given name or even pretend like they wanna look crooked at me. Now, I don't want no degenerate fool or no mess like that. I just wants a REAL MAN. Kinda like the “Good Girl, Bad Boy" syndrome. Let me know what YOU think. Now here we go now, come on:
HEIGHT: They kinda pegged me on this one, but I am not really firm on it. But, still the logic remains: What the hell can you do with a man that is 4'9" and you are damn near six feet in stocking feet, no matter how much of a Mr. Wonderful he is? Hello! I do think they are ragging on me a little bit. 'Cause, I do gotta admit I have that "Daddy" syndrome. My father was 6'4" and EVERYBODY knows I loved me some Papi. I gave new meaning to Daddy’s Girl. So, I have more than a slight tendency to look for someone in his image. The tall man standing over the crowd will almost always catch my eye first. Still and all, if you have no substance, it don’t matter how tall you are, your azz STILL ain't got no substance, playa.
APPAREL: The shoes!! Look at the shoes!! ha! ha! On the real, we don’t want anybody that looks like Johnny Taylor and we are always looking like Ann Taylor. And, they don't want anybody that looks like something thrown away either with her tracks showing. And, honey I ain't talking about CTA either. Apparel tells a lot about the person. Bad: They are a slob. Good: Takes pride in their appearance, but could also be broke because of the shopping bill, so he ain't got nothing to do nothing else with. That one there could definitely be a two way street.
BEING NICE: Nobody wants a fool. Me, myself don't need a "Yes Man." Indeed someone who is challengING, not A challenge (no games!) and is not intimidated by me and is not afraid of my strength, but also will not use my vulnerabilities against me. That's when I go straight into a defense mode and come out of the box like a venomous viper cobra. DO NOT play with that part of me!! I repeat, "DO NOT PLAY WITH MY SENSITIVITIES!!" I will never, ever forgive for that. NEVER!! Our relationship is over fa' show if ya do that. It is like a lick to me and everybody knows I do not "take a licking and keep on ticking." PERIOD!! My name ain't Timex. After something like that, it is usually like I "get to walking and they get to stalking." ha! ha!
MY PAST: “Watch it, sucka!”…Lovely Aunt Esther. Do NOT go there!! I will straight Jap-Snap. I respect myself and it shows. They should too. This really does not apply to me. They should be secure enough in themselves & not worry about what I have done in the past and with whom. Like they say, "There are two sides to every story." All they need to worry about is what I do for them. I have some people in my past that I will never, ever forget. And, there are also some that I wish I never, ever had to remember and will always rue the day I met. We all do. For one thing, today is today. I don't want to live in my past, so why should they? If they wanted to live there, they should have been there. You missed it, get over it! Because if they trip about it, they will be just that....in my past! And, just for future reference, a whore is a whore is a whore!! A real woman doesn't want a man who everyone else has had either. So, multiple baby daddies and played out wannabe pimps need not apply! “Get ta stepping!”…..Ole Marty Mart
CUSSING: When I get pissed off, I swear. That is just me. End of story. No biggie. (I'm working on it. One of my idiosyncrasies, ha! ha!) Basically, to my girls and to myself. At the right time AND the right place. Don't do drama. But, you get me going and I will give you a Dearborn Homes/Ida B. Wells cussing out fa' sho'. Kinda like "you deal with it or you don't", but will always respect you, as long as you respect me. Once you don't, I don't. And, if we ever get there where I do have to do an Ida Bee, the relationship is over anyway.
And ladies, some Men ARE dogs!! Yet, some aren't. Just judge them individually and call them as ya see them. I know Sista Sledge here will not ever settle for BS, even though I do try to give them a few chances here and there. I expect them to do the same for me. (**See: "MY PAST"!!)
CHURCH: The Lord!! Absolutely!! No doubt! Halle-friggin-luiah!
I AM A GOOD WOMAN!! BUT, I am NOT perfect and NEITHER are YOU.
You get as good as you give. Everyone should remember that!!
Faith in God, Respect by Aretha, and Love & Happiness with Al.
Whatcha think? Ya feel me?
He may have some major points. Check it out:
A GOOD MAN
You say you want a Good Man and when it comes to finding one, you won't.
Because when it comes to really wanting one, simply put, ladies, you don't.
You say you want a Good Man, one that will always give you hugs.
But every time I turn around, you're always chasing after thugs.
You say you want a Good Man. Well, I'm here to tell you that's not true.
Because the last one that came your way, wasn't tall enough for you.
You say you want a Good Man because you're tired of trifling mess.
However, you rolled your eyes at the last one, because you didn't like the way he dressed. You say you want a Good Man, one that will have you for his wife.
Yet, every time you come across one, you say he's just too nice.
You say you want a Good Man and I'm not saying you should make him beg.
But a brother should at least know your first and last name before you open up your legs.
See if you try that with a Good Man, in you he won't be pleased.
For he realizes, just like he could have, other brothers have had you with ease.
Now in order to get a Good Man, you need to listen; see, it's in your favor.
Starting with the fact that no Good Man wants a woman who curses like a sailor.
And in your quest to find a Good Man, listen as if it's Law.
You'll never find a good man, if you always label him as a dog.
See a Good Man wants a woman that expects to receive his best.
But you will never ever find one, if you keep settling for less.
Now if you've found a man you think might be right for you.
You'll know he's not a Good man, if he won't go to church with you.
For in the life of a Good Man, you're not first, but don't take it hard.
See you're standing right there next to him, but you're second after God.
So if you still would like a Good Man, one that will make you a real good husband.
There's only one thing left for you to do…..and that's simply become a Good Woman.
===============================================================
I’m feeling this, don't get me wrong. But, ya knows I have to dissect each and every one as it relates to me, 'cause that's just me. Ok, so if you know me then you know the thug requirement is a part of me, right? Shall we call it "urban," people? :-) Word!! It is just that I gotta feel like he can take care of me and have my back. Like, he will open up a can of whup tail on somebody if they call me anything other than my given name or even pretend like they wanna look crooked at me. Now, I don't want no degenerate fool or no mess like that. I just wants a REAL MAN. Kinda like the “Good Girl, Bad Boy" syndrome. Let me know what YOU think. Now here we go now, come on:
HEIGHT: They kinda pegged me on this one, but I am not really firm on it. But, still the logic remains: What the hell can you do with a man that is 4'9" and you are damn near six feet in stocking feet, no matter how much of a Mr. Wonderful he is? Hello! I do think they are ragging on me a little bit. 'Cause, I do gotta admit I have that "Daddy" syndrome. My father was 6'4" and EVERYBODY knows I loved me some Papi. I gave new meaning to Daddy’s Girl. So, I have more than a slight tendency to look for someone in his image. The tall man standing over the crowd will almost always catch my eye first. Still and all, if you have no substance, it don’t matter how tall you are, your azz STILL ain't got no substance, playa.
APPAREL: The shoes!! Look at the shoes!! ha! ha! On the real, we don’t want anybody that looks like Johnny Taylor and we are always looking like Ann Taylor. And, they don't want anybody that looks like something thrown away either with her tracks showing. And, honey I ain't talking about CTA either. Apparel tells a lot about the person. Bad: They are a slob. Good: Takes pride in their appearance, but could also be broke because of the shopping bill, so he ain't got nothing to do nothing else with. That one there could definitely be a two way street.
BEING NICE: Nobody wants a fool. Me, myself don't need a "Yes Man." Indeed someone who is challengING, not A challenge (no games!) and is not intimidated by me and is not afraid of my strength, but also will not use my vulnerabilities against me. That's when I go straight into a defense mode and come out of the box like a venomous viper cobra. DO NOT play with that part of me!! I repeat, "DO NOT PLAY WITH MY SENSITIVITIES!!" I will never, ever forgive for that. NEVER!! Our relationship is over fa' show if ya do that. It is like a lick to me and everybody knows I do not "take a licking and keep on ticking." PERIOD!! My name ain't Timex. After something like that, it is usually like I "get to walking and they get to stalking." ha! ha!
MY PAST: “Watch it, sucka!”…Lovely Aunt Esther. Do NOT go there!! I will straight Jap-Snap. I respect myself and it shows. They should too. This really does not apply to me. They should be secure enough in themselves & not worry about what I have done in the past and with whom. Like they say, "There are two sides to every story." All they need to worry about is what I do for them. I have some people in my past that I will never, ever forget. And, there are also some that I wish I never, ever had to remember and will always rue the day I met. We all do. For one thing, today is today. I don't want to live in my past, so why should they? If they wanted to live there, they should have been there. You missed it, get over it! Because if they trip about it, they will be just that....in my past! And, just for future reference, a whore is a whore is a whore!! A real woman doesn't want a man who everyone else has had either. So, multiple baby daddies and played out wannabe pimps need not apply! “Get ta stepping!”…..Ole Marty Mart
CUSSING: When I get pissed off, I swear. That is just me. End of story. No biggie. (I'm working on it. One of my idiosyncrasies, ha! ha!) Basically, to my girls and to myself. At the right time AND the right place. Don't do drama. But, you get me going and I will give you a Dearborn Homes/Ida B. Wells cussing out fa' sho'. Kinda like "you deal with it or you don't", but will always respect you, as long as you respect me. Once you don't, I don't. And, if we ever get there where I do have to do an Ida Bee, the relationship is over anyway.
And ladies, some Men ARE dogs!! Yet, some aren't. Just judge them individually and call them as ya see them. I know Sista Sledge here will not ever settle for BS, even though I do try to give them a few chances here and there. I expect them to do the same for me. (**See: "MY PAST"!!)
CHURCH: The Lord!! Absolutely!! No doubt! Halle-friggin-luiah!
I AM A GOOD WOMAN!! BUT, I am NOT perfect and NEITHER are YOU.
You get as good as you give. Everyone should remember that!!
Faith in God, Respect by Aretha, and Love & Happiness with Al.
Whatcha think? Ya feel me?
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